If you were thinking that we will give you some friendly advice about life, reconsider it again.
In this article, we are going to present you some harsh truths in life, which might be hard to hear, but they will help you to get much stronger and deal with life obstacles. Truth usually hearts, but we have to say it as it is important to know the truth.
HARSH TRUTHS IN LIFE
Here are some of the most common harsh realities in life:
• Nothing is perfect
It is risky to set up your own business?
It is not the right time to have children?
You cannot start dating until you have lost weight?
If you are still waiting for the right time, situation and place, you will die waiting with numerous regrets about things you have never done in your life.
The right time is right now, wake up and get what you want.
• You are not able to change the past
Even though it sounds harsh, the past time and the paste experiences cannot be rewritten.
Instead of regretting about the mistakes that you have made in the past, focus on your future plans and take action to accomplish your aims and goals.,
• No one can fix you; it is your task
Do you feel unhappy? Find something that makes you happy.
Are you missing something? Go and find it.
Do not wait for someone to come and to fix your problems. Determine what you want in life and go for it.
• You are definitely going to fail
‘You can avoid criticism by doing nothing, saying nothing and being nothing’. – Aristotle
Failure is a normal thing that happens to all of us.
– You may make the wrong decision.
– You may make bad decisions and regret about them all your life.
– You may kiss the wrong person.
Right? It is normal to make mistakes. But, when you make them, stand up and go ahead in life. Do not accuse yourself of not doing it the right way.
• Tomorrow does not come for everybody
Steve Jobs stated that remembering that he will die soon was the most powerful tool that he ever encountered to help him make big choices in life. Almost everything – pride, life expectations, failure, fear of embarrassment – falls away on the deaths face, leaving us what is truly essential.
People experience heart attacks, crash accidents, get hit by a bus. Do not postpone until tomorrow what can be done today, because tomorrow never come for some people.
• To be busy does not mean to be productive
Even though some people constantly complain how busy they are, if you examine their actions thoroughly, you will realize that if they focused on achieving their task as much as they focused on complaining how much work they have to do, they would not be so busy.
You should work smarter, not harder. Make a list of what you have to do, putting the most important ones on the top. Switch off social media notifications and avoid distractions. Do your tasks without making excuses.
• Do not tell everybody that you do not have time; you have it
We often hear how people complain that they do not have time. But how many hours do you spend on watching TV? Being active on social media? Chatting with other people?
Identify distractions and lower the time you spend on them. Then, you will realize that you have more productive hours during the day than you previously thought.
• You will never be 100 % satisfied with your life
It is not important how much you earn or how much you are successful. You will never be completely satisfied. It is human nature. But you do not have to worry about it. Go ahead with the life stream and you will get hope.
• They will always be people who do not lake you
Even though your family and friends adore you, there will always be people who will hate you. In your life, you will always have people who do not love you, but it is good, because they will remind you that you are doing something right.
• You will not always get what you want in life
You want success, happiness, love, fame, money and more. However, you will never get everything you want.
Work hard to achieve your goals, but keep in mind that you might have to make compromises with what life will give you.
• There is a lot you do not know
Life contains mysteries that people will never be able to comprehend. Even though you learn new things, you cannot know everything.
• You cannot control everything
Even though there are a lot of things that bother you, you have to accept that you cannot control everything. You can just control your own life, so focus on things which are in your hands.